Happy wife, happy life? This could be taken as a sexist statement and may seem unrealistic but this simply statement couldn't be truer. In order to keep the peace in most relationships, your girl's mature degree is really important. Women tend to take more time when it comes to a relationship and reaching a level of maturity can surely support it in the long term. But how can you be sure if the girl you're dating will be the one you can get serious within the long term? Well, you'll want to keep your eye out for these signs of immature women.
Signs of an Immature Woman in a Relationship
She Acts Like a Toddler
If she throws a tantrum like you three-year-old niece or nephew when things don't go her way or she's unhappy, she is lacking a certain level of maturity. The silent treatment, yelling, pouting or being passive aggressive are all clear signs she can't handle adult relationships when things get difficult.
She Lacks Domestic Skills
She's proud of the fact that she can't even boil spaghetti noodle correctly, always finds someone else to take out the trash and still relies on her mom to come get her laundry, she's not ready for a commitment. If she doesn't have the basic skills to survive on her own, chances are she won't be able to take care of a family.
She Begs for Attention
Mature women aren't bothered when they aren't the center of attention, they would much rather people respect her. Immature women, on the other hand, seem to purposely embarrass themselves just to get the attention they crave.
She's More Interested in Superficial Qualities
When considering the type of guy she wants to date, her main priorities are on his appearance, physical fitness and the type of car he drives. Immature women won't look beyond the surface at the really important attributes like being able to communicate, being kind or having standards.
She Gets or Acts Jealous Easily
Insecure women are often incredibly jealous and will go out of their way to make their partner jealous. Signs of an immature woman that's jealous include flirting without guys in front of the person she's dating and getting mad when you even pass by another female. Dating with this kind of immature women can only lead to frustration that may not be worth it.
She Doesn't Want Her Significant Other to Socialize
You both need to have your own lives and you both have your own circle of friends, but if she doesn't want you hanging out with your friends, it can be a huge problem. This is a clear sign that she wants to control more of your life and that she often doesn't trust you. A mature healthy relationship allows both persons to maintain a life outside of the relationship.
She Takes Social Media Too Seriously
In this day and age, it is difficult not to share everything on social media, but some things are supposed to be kept private in a relationship. If she feels the need to share every little detail of your relationship on social media, this can lead to a number of problems, not to mention most of the stuff she shares is probably not even true.
She's Selfish
Immature women have little consideration for other people. She constantly takes too long to get ready making you always wait, treat you like you have to drop all of your plans to come when she calls, and it often feels like the relationship is one-sided where she always gets what she wants. Not only is it immature, it's not a healthy relationship.
She Demands Too Much
Along with being selfish and immature, woman who ask for too much things from their partners are sure immature. Demanding women are simply inconsiderate and will eventually make their significant other feel overstressed.
She Needs to Know Where You Are All the Time
Whether is you're at work, out with the guys or even visiting your parents, immature women will be constantly asking what you are doing, with who and how long you're going to be. One of the signs of an immature woman is you always having to report back to her with every move and if you don't, there will be an unavoidable argument.
She's Complicated
All women are complex creatures, but an immature woman has no control over her life. She seems to always be stressed because she's not doing the things she really wants with her life. She complains about how her life is but isn't doing anything to change. This is an indication that she's just not mature enough for a serious relationship.
She Can't Make Her Own Decisions
Mature adults are able to make their own decision and can also take into account the consequences of the decision they make. But immature women don't make their own decisions and instead need to consult someone else to choose for them. This isn't just on major life choices but also in even small choices that should be easier to make up their mind on.
She's Stuck in Her Past Relationships
It's usually never a good sign when your current partner continually talks about their exes, but immature women do it to an extreme. You should discuss why things didn't work out as adults and maybe constantly reminiscing on what their ex did for them could be her way to make you jealous. However, mature women know what should and should not be said about their past relationships.
You're Not Allowed to Have Girl Friends
Mature women understand that mutual friends can be sustained between men and woman, but immature women will only think your girlfriends are more than friends. If it doesn't just stop to your girlfriends, it also extends to any women you may work with, this could be a serious problem.
She Blows Things Out of Proportion
One of the clearest signs of an immature woman is how she handles any disagreement you two have. If she is unable to actually communicate with you, listen to suggested compromises or is simply unwilling to talk about what may be bothering you, she is clearly immature. Mature women understand that lasting relationship only last when both individuals are willing and able to talk and work through the difficult times.
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