How to Become a Cool and Lovely Girlfriend

Be Straight forward

Well, as women, we all have this habit of letting men guess what we need. Rather than expressing what we need, we just give hints and expect men to understand our heart. Yeah, it’s the basic nature of women, I won’t deny that. But this may put men at trouble. As they fail to understand the heart of women, they get more and more frustrated and disappointed. What would start as a small issue may grow large, if girls hold on to their indirect nature. So, try to be straight and simple.

Men Needs Appreciation

Yeah, everyone needs appreciation and men are not an exception to that. But they need it more if you think they are putting so much of efforts to take care of you. And if he feels that his efforts and hard work are not recognized, the more will be his frustration. And the more frustrated he is, the more he will try to stay away from you. So, if you think the dress he bought you last week or the way he speaks to you is amazing, just let him know.

He Needs Some Space at Times

When girls get into trouble, they try to share it with their close ones. They can’t hold it to themselves and seek others' help. Well, this is not the case with men. They won’t share it with others. They just need some time to heal themselves. So, if you try to interfere into his issues, he might get crazy. Most guys are born to deal with their problems well.

Preserve Your Life Outside the Relationship

At times you may get too much involved with your relationship. Don’t live as if you do not have a life outside the relationship. Actually, it is your family and friends who could cheer you up while you are going through a tough time in your relationship. Moreover, they could give you valuable advises and tricks about how to be a cool girlfriend.

Carry Yourself Well

Girls get less interested in taking care of themselves once they fall in love. Once they have their dream boy, no more do they care about their looks or health. Well, if you are one of them, please don’t be. Men still care about looks. So, do not forget to carry yourself well. Don’t miss your workout session, and have healthy diet. Look cool, be happy and healthy.

Wear a Smile

Nothing could make a girl more attractive than a cute smile. And men really feel so good when their girlfriend smiles at him with so much of love. And real men tend to anything to keep that smile on his girlfriend’s face. So, when you smile at him, he would naturally have a feeling of being successful and satisfying his lover.

Know Him Well

To be a cool girlfriend, you have to study more about your boyfriend. You will have to do a thorough research and find his likes, dislikes, views, etc. But don’t ask him out every time. Just try to find his interests by closely observing him. The more you know about him, you will find it easy to impress him. You could act according to his interests and he will just feel awesome with you.

Surprise Him

Well, as a girlfriend you would expect surprises. But if you really want to be a cool girlfriend, you need to do the same to him. Even men are excited about surprises. Give him surprise gifts, invite his parents to home secretly or take him to a new movie or restaurant. He will really feel excited about how cool you are.

Okay, before trying these tips and tricks, you might know how to be a cool girlfriend for guys. Well, there is no definition for cool girlfriend; it’s a matter of perspective and depends on each person. What one man feels to be cool may not be the same for the other. But let’s see some typical opinions of guys to understand it:

• When there is a problem, she should understand it well, provide me mental support and encourage me to make a wise solution.

• A cool girlfriend will be friendly, rather than being highly possessive. She should be the one with whom I could share anything and everything without hesitation, a person who could accept everything of me.

• I could be myself with her. She would still love me as I am. Rather than pretending to be perfect and gentle, I could express my true self.

• She is cool as she challenges me every time. Rather than accepting all my foolishness, she argues with me straight away if I speak some nonsense. But of course, in a funny and polite manner.

• No drama, no games – she is straight and frank. That makes her cool as I don’t have to think too much before doing anything.

• A girl with a bold attitude and could take care of her emotions. Men are immature compared to women, so maturity plays a major role in making a girl impressive.

• A cool girlfriend will have an open mind and will accept new ideas rather than approaching them with a prejudice.

• She easily gets along with my friends and family. Now she is more intimate with my family than me. That even shocks me.

• A girl will be cool if she can adapt to my interests and likes well. Life will be easier with such a girl.

• She should not get too emotional while arguing with me.

• A girl with a good humour sense and ability to crack jokes often would sound so cool.

After reading so many tips about how to be a cool girlfriend, judge about your boyfriend and be that kind of girl in his eyes!